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How mentoring sharpens your core leadership skills

Welcome to 2021! I wish you a happy, healthy & successful year ahead. 2020 got a lot of bad rap. But rarely do we acknowledge how far it pushed us. In just 12 months, we adopted more technology than ever, made scientific breakthroughs like the vaccine, and stood together for social liberties like never before. Not to forget, The Mentoring Club is also a product of this time.  As I was reflecting on the bright side of 2020 , I couldn’t help appreciate how mentoring has personally benefited me in my role as product director, and brought joy through giving whatever little I've learned. So 30 sessions later, I wanted to share how mentoring helped me become a stronger product leader.  1. Mentoring amplified my analytical and critical thinking ability. Every conversation brings new perspectives, situations and challenges to the table. What worked (or didn’t) for me, in my context, is valuable but can’t be applied as is to the mentee's. Take a look below at some of the topics &am
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